the hardest thing is losing a child.and a good friend.in 1997 i lost my son at 2 months and 2 days to s.id.s. and sleep abdonia.its been 11 years.and i still see when mt son died in my arms.my blessing go out to u mike.and especially"biggies"m.o.m. and family.you can lose a mother,father,but when u loose your child its totally different.and the pain is everlasting......:-(.....i will defectifally go see the movie january 16th.