Been plus sized since I can remember and I get plently of love. Its truly about beliving in yourself. Start by smiling when looking into a mirror. Positive mind = positive vibes. love.

I recently broke up with a man who constantly criticized me after I gained weight (never mentioning the fact that he gained 20 more lbs than I did while we were together and I never mentioned it or minded). Now that we are no longer together I am finally starting to dress sexier and love my curves which makes me think that maybe I lost the only wieght I needed to - him!

i am a plus sized woman and so is my daughter and i used to have low self-esteem and i thought because of my size, i had to accept any type of treatment from men to be accepted but i have learned to love myself any regardless to what any one thinks of me, because i am a good person and i have mad love for everyone. so all you big girls that loves someone else more than yourself, reverse that thing.and tell that man, the minute i stopped loving you, is the moment that i started to loving myself. so may God less each and everyone of us and he will love us just the way he made us. peace to you, mz b.

I agree with Mia, where are the Atlanta men? I've recently returned to the area after living a few years in Dallas, TX and I was faced with the same challenged there that I'm faced with here. However, full figured wome have a lot of love to give.

I was once at odds with my weight. I am 5'4 40dd-34-49. I thought about losing weight because that is what I thought my fiance wanted. But he was very adamant about me keeping the weight on. It makes me feel so good for him to admire me the way he does. Big women we are in!