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Dr. Betty Price Talks Religion and Infidelity in New Book 'Warning to Ministers, Their Wives and Their Mistresses'

Dr. Betty Price

Dr. Betty Price, wife of well-known television minister Apostle Dr. Fred Price of the Ever Increasing Faith Ministry, gives voice and a unique perspective to the topic of adultery in the church--through the personal stories of some pastors' mistresses. Dr. Betty Price spoke candidly to ESSENCE.com on the taboo subject.

It was 20 years ago when I started receiving letters from women of various churches who were having illicit affairs with powerful married ministers. I was flabbergasted. Was this really happening in the church? I asked myself. Then my phone began ringing off the hook. I couldn't understand why these women were reaching out to me. I think it was because they saw my husband, Dr. Fred K. Price, and his televised preachings and were captivated by his message.

Most recently I received two anonymous letters within a week apart. Both women shared their involvement with very high-profile men of God. As I read their letters I sensed their deep regret. They expressed how they never intended on being involved with a minister and each woman was desperately seeking a way out.

The first letter was from an older, mature woman. She'd just bought a luxury condo but lost her government job after 25 years of service. Her self-esteem was very low. She didn't know what to do because she was financially strapped. And, she was older and didn't think she would be able to find another job in this economy. She reached out to her bishop for counseling. They began an affair. It's been going on for three years. The second woman was from a different church. She works on a committee in which she interacts with her pastor daily. They began spending long hours together. Then the affair began. Now, she is desperately trying to get out but doesn't know how.  

Both of these women said they know what they are doing is wrong but expressed they don't have the strength to leave. Both ministers have threatened and coerced these women. They told them, "If they stop the affair then they would be dishonoring God." However, both women expressed they were benefitting financially in the relationships. They were stuck. Unsure of what to do. After reading those two letters my daughter said I had to write a book.

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The spirit is often willing, while the flesh is weak, but Christians stand strong. This is a theme I've heard about more often that I'd like, so I decided to buy the book. Dr. Fred Price is my father's Pastor, and I trust the credibility of the book. This should be an interesting read.
Posted at 11/20/2009 1:51 PM by Devri Davis
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I'm shock that Dr. Betty Price didn't know that adultery was going on in the church for years. Please............... Being married to a minister she sees it all. This is nothing new. It's a whole lot of things that are going on in the church that is not pleasing to God. Instead of writing to Dr. Price about their affairs with the pastor, bishop etc., they should have been praying to God about their situations. Hebrews 13:4 (NIV) 4 Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.
Posted at 11/18/2009 1:39 PM by Kay
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This message is extremely important for our time and Dr. Betty Price, a woman of utmost integrity, is God's messenger to carry it.
Posted at 11/14/2009 1:24 PM by Gayle
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this is a joke. discipline those stanky legs.
Posted at 11/09/2009 8:39 PM by Carolyn
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This mess does not happen to women ministers! I can't even get a date
Posted at 11/07/2009 8:32 PM by Cheryl
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