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Dr. Betty Price Talks Religion and Infidelity in New Book 'Warning to Ministers, Their Wives and Their Mistresses'

Dr. Betty Price

Dr. Betty Price, wife of well-known television minister Apostle Dr. Fred Price of the Ever Increasing Faith Ministry, gives voice and a unique perspective to the topic of adultery in the church--through the personal stories of some pastors' mistresses. Dr. Betty Price spoke candidly to ESSENCE.com on the taboo subject.

It was 20 years ago when I started receiving letters from women of various churches who were having illicit affairs with powerful married ministers. I was flabbergasted. Was this really happening in the church? I asked myself. Then my phone began ringing off the hook. I couldn't understand why these women were reaching out to me. I think it was because they saw my husband, Dr. Fred K. Price, and his televised preachings and were captivated by his message.

Most recently I received two anonymous letters within a week apart. Both women shared their involvement with very high-profile men of God. As I read their letters I sensed their deep regret. They expressed how they never intended on being involved with a minister and each woman was desperately seeking a way out.

The first letter was from an older, mature woman. She'd just bought a luxury condo but lost her government job after 25 years of service. Her self-esteem was very low. She didn't know what to do because she was financially strapped. And, she was older and didn't think she would be able to find another job in this economy. She reached out to her bishop for counseling. They began an affair. It's been going on for three years. The second woman was from a different church. She works on a committee in which she interacts with her pastor daily. They began spending long hours together. Then the affair began. Now, she is desperately trying to get out but doesn't know how.  

Both of these women said they know what they are doing is wrong but expressed they don't have the strength to leave. Both ministers have threatened and coerced these women. They told them, "If they stop the affair then they would be dishonoring God." However, both women expressed they were benefitting financially in the relationships. They were stuck. Unsure of what to do. After reading those two letters my daughter said I had to write a book.

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Dr. Betty Price. What can I say; to know her is to love her. She wants God' best for the Minister's and the women with whom they are involved. God will not honor these illicit relationships.
Posted at 1/17/2010 1:43 AM by Gwenette Joseph
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Diane72, I am one of "the blacks" and I don't worship Dr. King. I simply respect and honor the life sacrifice that him and others in the Civil Rights movement made--sacrifices which made way for EVERY advancement/right that all African-Americans and other people of color in America enjoy today. I will spend my life honoring and respecting people who made such sacrifices for me. They were human so I'm sure they had flaws and failings. Who they slept with in the end is between them, God, and their spouses. God will judge that.
Posted at 1/10/2010 1:10 PM by Tee
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Blow the trumpet Betty. If they will hear, they will be saved. If they will not ,they will be damed.
Posted at 1/06/2010 12:53 PM by pat wilson
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I know one thing all you ministers/preachers wifes need to keep your husbands in check....Because as far as im concerned their are too many "s in the Pulpit" There is always so much emphasis on the single/divorced/widowed woman that she is automatically sinful and out to get your husband when more often that not the sole reason for these men wanting this position in the church is to seek out women!!! I know cause its happen to me plenty of times. This is a issue that need to be addressed.
Posted at 12/29/2009 7:58 AM by Nubian
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It just happened to me. Both of them licensed ministers. After 17 yr, her left me and married her. He still teaches at the Bible school. Sadly the head of this Full Gospel church allows this kind of thing to happen.
Posted at 11/22/2009 12:39 AM by Sylvia
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