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Exclusive: Maia Campbell's Father and Grandmother Speak Out

After a video was released of former "In The House" costar Maia Campbell behaving irrationally with incoherent banter, the blogosphere unleashed a hailstorm of criticism and ridicule about the young actress acting out. However, Campbell has suffered for some time with bipolar disease, and her family, including her late mother, award-winning author Bebe Moore Campbell, have always loved and supported her. Campbell's father, Ellis Gordon Jr., and grandmother, Doris C. Moore, have released an exclusive statement to ESSENCE.com addressing the recent events that have placed their daughter and granddaughter under much public scrutiny. "She is in treatment and in a facility," Gordon says.

Our hearts have been deeply touched by the outpouring of love that so many of you have freely displayed in the past several days about our beloved Maia C. Campbell. Our spirits have been lifted by your words of support and your acts of kindness and we have been encouraged to continue our efforts to assist our daughter and granddaughter to become whole again.   

As a family, we have been struggling with Maia in her illness for quite some time. We continue to hold fast to our faith and hope that some day she will realize that healing will begin when she decides to reach out and accept the help and treatment that have been offered to her. We all have challenges in life that we must face, but when compound problems such as mental illness and substance abuse are prevalent, it can appear that there is no way out. However, our sustaining faith and trust in God compels us to believe differently. We strongly believe that Maia will be healed.

We also know that Maia’s mother, the late Bebe Moore Campbell, who devoted much of her later years in life to mental health awareness and education, along with her family members and friends would welcome your prayers and support for Maia’s sustained recovery. In addition, we urge your support for efforts to diagnose and treat mental illness in our community.  

We ask that you not only pray for Maia’s wellness, but also commit to understanding this insidious disease, which is devastating our loved ones and community. Help erase the "stigma" of mental illness, which is a very serious barrier to treatment, so that we can help those with the disease to live wholesome lives. Call for more treatment options and prevention strategies, have compassion for those stricken with this illness, and help guide those who have been unable to find their way to appropriate treatment. Additionally, support those families who are struggling to cope with loved ones with the disease because mental illness affects the entire family.

Finally, we ask that you support Bebe Moore Campbell National Minority Mental Health Awareness Month, which was established by Congressional Resolution, H. Con. Res. 134, in April 2008, and is celebrated during the month of July each year. It was established to enhance public awareness of mental illness, especially within minority communities. Please join us in this effort to bring attention to this problem, to identify resources and to strengthen the focus on treatment along with research relative to minorities and mental illness. This is the work that we continue on behalf of Bebe Moore Campbell.  

Let us move forward, face our challenge, and turn that challenge into victory and a celebration of life. 

To God be the Glory,

 Sincerely,

 Ellis Gordon Jr., Father
Doris C. Moore, Grandmother

September 6, 2009

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For more information visit the NAMI site, nami.org/Content/ContentGroups/Multicultural_Support1/Bebe_Moore_Campbell_National_Minority_Mental_Health_Awareness_Month.htmand

Ellis  Gordon's recommended books on mental illness:

 "72 Hour Hold" and "Sometimes My Mommy Gets Angry" by Bebe Moore Campbell

"Black Pain: It Just Looks Like We’re Not Hurting'  by Terrie Williams

"The Seven Beliefs: A Step-by Step Guide to Help Latinas Recognize and Overcome Depression" by Belisa Lozano-Vranich and Jorge R. Petit (in English and Spanish)

"I Am Not Sick. I Do Not Need Help" by Xavier Amador (in English and Spanish)

"Standing in the Shadows: Understanding and Overcoming Depression in Black Men" by John Head.
 

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I have a sister and daughter that is Bipolar, it is a struggle everyday. All you can do is pray and seek information that will help you understand the disease. D
Posted at 11/12/2009 1:22 PM by D
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Mental illness and hard core drugs is a deadly tail. Really, we should pray! It could only help. My heart is for her family this is not the seed they indented to grow, rather a weed killing love around her, relapse is inevitable death is close be it murder, overdose, the public can say goodbye and her family will and should keep fighting for her.... but I am not sure if she wants to fight for herself.... Another black woman gone!!!!!
Posted at 10/20/2009 7:13 PM by Shauna Stockton
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I too was diagnosed with bipolar disorder five years ago and had an episode where I acted out at work and end up losing my job on a very intense open heart ICU floor. When I left the docter's office and he told me it was Bipolar disorder. I said "God whatever it takes"..I gave my life to Christ and began to go to church.I did a total transformation in my life never to turn back!...I had episodes where I was in denial and went off my medication and was told by my pastor and others to wait for God to heal you..As I was in a few prayer lines three different Pastors told me it was a generational curse...Then one day I was randomly reading a book about generational curses and suddenly as I began to pray the Holy Ghost started speaking thru me and denoucing all types of spirits and curses and INSTANTLY I was set FREE! Glory to God...Then I heard God say" blessings not curses".....Now I dont condone my method for everyone but I had met a lady in my church that was also set free and my mother said she was diagnosed years ago and was set free also.Also I had read how Pastor Paul Morton was also healed...So I didnt know when God was gonna do it but I began to believe and have faith and take my meds and go to treatment until he showed up....Im sooo much happier now and pray for anyone and families that suffer this torment of the mind...Remember the mind is the battlefield of satan
Posted at 10/04/2009 3:19 AM by Happiness
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I just read in the Philadelphia Daily News, that Maia's family has successfully checked her into a rehab center. This is the first part of the battle! I will continue to keep her and the family in my prayers. Miracles and blessings to the Campbell family.
Posted at 10/03/2009 1:54 PM by C Sharpe
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Blessings to Maia and her family always!
Posted at 10/01/2009 9:33 AM by toni
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