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The Malia and Sasha Effect

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When I was about the age Sasha Obama is now, I received a wonderful present. It was a cocoa-colored baby doll with shiny black hair. So thrilled was I with this tiny little look-alike that I vowed to take very good care of her. This meant never washing her hair so it would remain shiny and straight. (This was the 1960's when sitting by the stove with a hot comb on Saturday night was mandatory.)

Now here come Malia, 10, and Sasha, 7, perfectly lovely little brown girls with toothy smiles and brainy parents. They are a delight to watch, but I worry about them a bit because they are still so young. Children living in the White House come of age under the most intense scrutiny. As the girls walked onstage in their little party dresses the night their daddy was elected president, a spotlight shone on them that may never switch off. They are about to become the world's most famous children.

I have been studying them, occasionally up close but mostly from afar. Malia, the older, more serious one, seems most like her father-ever observant and a bit cerebral. Sasha, the younger, is the child who sometimes waves irrepressibly at crowds and at other times hides in the campaign bus when supporters want to sing "Happy Birthday" to her. Mostly they are just children thrust into an impossible limelight when all they want is a dog and perhaps the chance to sneak some contraband ice cream at Grandma's house.

I am taken by what America will now see in these two little brown girls. Not victims, like the little girls who died at the Sixteenth Street Baptist Church in 1963. Not hoochie mamas, like the Black girls who shake their rumps in music videos. Just two happy, playful, well-adjusted future Black women.

Barack Obama was the one who first got me thinking about the image of these two girls in the White House. It was at a Black journalists convention in 2007 when he mused . about what it would mean for other children to see his daughters running around on the South Lawn. "That changes how America looks at itself," he said. "It changes how White children think about Black children, and it changes how Black children think about Black children."

It is an utterly compelling image-two bright and pretty little girls clearly delighted to be in their parents' com­pany. They are well behaved, and they're shining examples. For me, it's a relief that our daughters have a more realistic reflection of themselves than cocoa-colored dolls.

The Obamas: Portrait of an American Family

Gwen Ifill, managing editor for the PBS news show Washington Week, will release her book The Breakthrough: Politics and Race in the Age of Obama (Doubleday) on Inauguration Day.

 

 

 

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to Gwen Ifill they are not brown girls they are BLACK!!
Posted at 1/20/2009 9:55 AM by AnneMarie
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Dear Gwen, It was such a pleasure to have an exchange with you in a restaurant in Shirlington, VA. You were gracious and warm and it did my heart good for you react to me and my family the way you did. Thank you for such a thoughtful article. I could relate to that first doll and I remember exactly when I got her. One of my aunts got it for my parents to give to me. She was truly beautiful. The impact of having a doll that looked somewhat like me was amazing. Malia and Sasha are little dolls in their own right. They are truly going to be the shining examples for other little black boys and girls. The difference is.....they are real and they are the standard being set for everyone. Malia and Sasha will be fine because they are truly loved by two beautiful parents working together to give them the foundation they need. This is such a special time . Maybe now little black children will select the black doll when asked to select their favorite. It won't happen over night but Malia and Sasha will enhance the chances. Happy Birthday Dr. King and Happy Inauguration Day President and Mrs. Obama.
Posted at 1/16/2009 3:44 AM by Gwen DayFuller
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These are beautiful children and I love the way they are allowed to look like little girls rather than being over-dressed and over-permed.
Posted at 1/07/2009 8:01 PM by janet mclemore
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Two beautiful little girls, I just hope they get the chance to be kids and not grow up to fast by the media, and the White House lifestyle. Their Dad may be busy working most of the time, but I think Michelle will do her job with raising them the old fashion, righteous way. As she stated, her first priority is to be a Mom. The best job ever, most times it does pay off later.. Remember... Train a child while they are young and they will NEVER depart from it...
Posted at 12/22/2008 9:51 PM by Denise
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Why does Chris Rock think that his daughters should have a play-date with the Obama's girls? If other rich Black people think the same way as Chris that would be a problem. Magic Johnson is another one who wants to get connected with Barack. Black people just be cool! We know this is something new to you. Just wait until you are invited. How do you know that the Obama kids want to your kids?
Posted at 12/17/2008 5:34 PM by jewell
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